growing wemon bulling me ,

This should be a place where people can feel comfortable and welcome to discuss there problems, as it is a medhelp site, just ignore then they obviously have nothing better to do then bully people over the internet.

yes i thought as much ,......i like my dolls in my pictures , just like my daughter liked dolls ,.......she is dead now and its just something that reminds me of her ,..........why are people so cruel ,.............

I'm not a bully,  bernie.  Those pictures gave me actual nightmares last night.

I still can't tell what they are pictures of - dolls,  computer generated images,  or actual dead babies.  Some,  to me,  look undeniably like dead babies,  although obviously they might not be.

I'm sorry you perceived that as bullying.  I like to look at people's photos on this site,  it's great fun to see families,  but I left thinking you had a business where you created life like photos of still born babies,  and then posted them here with no warning to those just popping in for a look.

That's not bullying.

what do you take me for ,...........i would never do a sick thing  like that ,.........nobody asked you to look at them ,......there are only dolls ,..........i dont think dead babys would sit up and have a smile on there face ,.........i can put up any kind of pictures  if i want to ,.and if you had of looked further you would have seen my family ......... if you didnt like them ,.......you could have kept that to yourself ,....and not put it out there ,......for people to see ........but seen you did i just answered you ,........why should i warn people of dolls ,.........funny every one else knew they were dolls ,.so dont give me that ,.........and yes it is bulling ,..........and it just invited that other bully to joined  in on it ,........well i hope you both had a good laugh ,..........because im not laughing ,.......and beleive what  you  want ,.....go on the net and you will see them ,........they come under dolls ,my daughter was 17 years old when she died ,.........so dont play on that ,.....by...telling  me i put up pictures of dead babys ,...........

I think your pictures are beautiful...NONE of them scared me!!  Some of them do look real, but babies do sleep...not sure why someone would mistake that as a DEAD baby???  
I have to agree that no negative comments were necessary.  I am glad that you find great comfort in your dolls.  I am sorry for your loss!  
Take care,
Julie

thank you ,surprisebaby ,..........i didnt think they were  either ,........but  another person in this really said some nasty things ,..........and on a forum that it should have never been said on ,...........when i was giving my comment on trying to help someone there ,.........and thats what i dont like ,.........thet people dont care were you are or who you are trying to help ,.........when they want to say things to you ,..........

I saw the post....COMPLETELY uncalled for....
shame on them!

Hmm, interesting how things affect different people differently. I looked back at all your pictures, bernie and I thought all the dolls were beautiful. I was amazed at how real looking they were, yes, but none looked like dead babies. Unless I missed something? Did you delete any? If it's the pictures in your profile then I'm puzzled why some people would have been scared by them. I thought they were beautiful. Isn't it amazing the talent people have who can make these? I wish I had half that talent! :)

I didn't see the abuse comments but I've had a few about my cats and dogs.  Any abuse about my grandson and I will .... can't say it but you can imagine.  Nothing deleted from a computer is ever really gone - it's still out there.  Even I with such bad eyesight could see that they were dolls.  My daughter has a stuffed dog in her window and people often think it's real lol

IMHO - abusive comments are usually deleted by MH but there seem to be so many more than there used to be.  Personally, I'd post the names of the abusers except for those whose comments seem genuine - like RockRose.  Bullies seldom apologize or even bother to explain - they just hit and run.  They can be untreatable and might twist a toe if you confront them  = P

bernie,  I'm sorry I mistook what I saw.    There are photographers,  actually,  who are very spiritual and kind hearted and they DO take pictures of stillborn babies for the parents.   The pictures tend to be very serene sleeping type pics,  with a baby in a single blanket,  asleep.    My sister has a beautiful picture of her stillborn daughter,  a sleeping type pic of her face with a white receiving blanket wrapped around her body.

I'm sorry,  really,  that I just got so creeped out when I saw your website.  What it looks like to me,  and it still does although this is not the case,  is a collection of photos of dolls,  and drawings,  and also dead babies posed with pacifiers and toys and headbands and photoshopped in open eyes,  in living positions.  The oily wet hair on some of the dolls makes it appear that these are actual newborn deceased babies but their eyes are open and their arms are around toys with shopping tags visible.      I got so creeped out I could barely write the post.

So sorry to offend,  and I won't ever go to your website again.  I'm not looking to be offended,  and hurt people's feelings.

I just wanted to say, that at first glance, I also was sort of disturbed by some of the dolls.  After looking closely at a few more, I realized that they must be dolls.  But they are so realistic, that I can understand the confusion.  Here is a related story...  
I work at a nursing home, and once wanted to make conversation with a lady who was just coming out of a coma-like state.  Anyway, I saw a picture of a new born baby on the stand next to her bed, so I picked it up and started asking her questions about her new grandbaby and how excited she must be to get better and get home to see her.  I actually heard my voice trail off into space as I realized upon closer inspection that the baby was actually a nicely taken photo of what must have been a still born.  Boy, did I feel lousy.  I really don't know if the lady actually heard my questions/comments about the baby, I never brought it up again.  

I did like looking at the other pictures of your family and friends.  

Take care

i will take your feelings rockrose into account now that i know about your sister ,...........but i still think you could have put it discretely ,........in a message to me ,............and you could have explained it better then you did when you put it to me out there ,...............you were creeped  by them ,...........???.well how do you think i feel by you and that other persons comments ,..........and on a post ,..were you should have never said it ,..........i was concerned about the person i was giving advice to ,.......and come back to see the other one agreeing with you ,.........leaving your feelings out ,.......did you ever think of my feelings ,..........no,,,,,,,,,,,or you would have said it in private to me ,............it just encouraged that other one to join in ,................but a least you came forward ,...........i cant say the same for the other one ,.........and i will mention her name ,..........so that other people will know just what a bully she is ,........i have seen some weird pictures here but let it go ,.........because i know thats what they like to put up ,........ i just let it go because i have more on my mind to be even bordered  with that kind of thing ,..and april all the dolls are there that i had on when the comment's  was made ,.............and if i could make dolls like that i would be a very rich women ,........all i know is there was never any harm meant to anyone by me putting them up ,.........as ive said my daughter liked dolls like that ,......and if that makes me feel closer to her thats all that matters to me ,...........

Just wish to say , I love your pics , I was just wondering  where you got that one of me in my blue suit....

Remember the night oh so well.....>Had to fight  the women off....It was terrible.....Thank you , thank you very much....

hi gator ,..........i was just wondering what to name? to give him now i know ,............thanks for the taught ,......

to rockrose ,.......will you please stop going into someone Else's forum ,.............why ?do you keep doing that ,......if you want to say anything to me say it here in mine ,...............but since you have put it out there once again ,i will give you back an answer ,......you said i was the bully ,.............where on earth did you get that from ,........are you trying to turn this around on me ,......the only person you are fooling is yourself ,........why ?.....is it when the one comes to talk to me you suddenly appear ,...........to back her up ,.........you said i hurt ,..........and thats whats wrong  with me ,.....and i can tell you ,....yes i do  ,and so do most of the people here ,.............and you said i am lashing out at people here ,........if you keep writing to me i will give you back an answer back ,.........do you think i wont ?,.........and you said i was pretending this ,..........how can i ........when you and the other person put in into someone Else's forum ,.......you are still bulling me ,.........you just wont leave me alone will you ,.......you say it was  just because i was upset ,i am takeing it out on you ,...................no you have it wrong ,........i wasn't upset till you both upset  me ,............i am not an angry person as youve put it ,.....just sick to my stomach thanks to you again ,........the truth seems to be hurting you now ,.........as ive already said people must stand up to bullys ,...........and thats what im doing here ........this might of thought you a lesson ,........to not comment in someone else's forum ,.............

Everyone...

I have not read all of the posts but I realize there is a problem. I would like to ask all of you to please watch three videos I just added to a Journal called, "Life is an Attitude... Never give Up." I think everyone will enjoy it and I believe we can all use the videos to think about our lives and what is truly important. I give you the videos in love, not judgement.
God Bless all of you.

Kande

no sorry kande i cant ,........she is trying to turn this on me ,................she can look at it ,...........and the other one ,.....they keep comeing to  me ,............trying to get out of what they did ,...........it would have been better if they just said they were sorry ....i would have addmered them for that ,...........but they havd to bring excuses into it as well ,.........

I'm not judging you sweetheart. Just trying to help. Love you....

i know kande ,.......just when was haveing some fun ,............why do people rune things ,...........you know im not a bully ,............she has hurt me again ,...........why wont she leave me alone why ????

Hey Kande! Great to see you around again! I'll check out your videos. Can you repost the Hal Lindsey ones too? You used to have them in your journal but I guess you deleted them. I've got some of his books. I like him.
I'll try and watch your videos tonight and let you know what I think.
Keep in touch, ok? Take care, my friend.
April

Bell...honey, I know how sweet and tender you are. It is an honor to have you for a friend. Others will see your beauty as I and many others have. Remain sweet and don't let anything bother you. Just be Bell.  :o) Now, lets go have more fun, lol...

April...Hi sweetie!! Yes, I'll post anything you want. I'll work on my Journals tonight. Thank You for asking April, I appreciate you!!  :o)

Hugs,
Kande

This may not be any of my business but.....I must say.. GOODNESS! I love your doll pics! My aunt actually collects them, has about 200 so far.(wouldn't want some of these women going into her house if they get freaked out easily...hehe) . Yes they are expensive because they are so life-like, but she works hard for the extra money to buy them! Has no one ever heard of Lee Middleton Dolls? If not.. google it.. they are AMAZING!! Just like the pics.. And you know, just like it freaked out Rock because her sister had a pic of her baby after it passed away, and the pics that are posted remind her of that.. It in turn is obviously helping Bernie deal with her daughters death. Let's try not to forget that we all learn coping ways to each our own and one should not judge another for their own method! I personally think it's fantastic of you to keep the spirit of your daughter alive Bernie!!

Many Blessings to you!

oh ,,,,,thank you pcarsey i would love to go into your aunts house i will google it thanks ,........yes it does help me so much ,........and after all ther were my pictures and it took me some time to find them ,......yes lets not forget the coping ,and thats all i was doing ,...and still trying to do ,..........anything thing that reminds me of my son or daughter i will put on ,..........nobody has the right to judge another ,............thank you again ,...........i will look now for them,.....

Bernie..................go find me some more dolls!!! You know how much i love them!!! You are one special friend....Bernieotoole...lol.........................Talk tomorrow!!! The sandman is in my eyes.............bye! Janice

hi b. i just wanted to say i like your pick and so does my daughter. im very sorry about your daughter.
if rockrose likes looking at pictures why doesnt she have any up herself?

hi muffen ,.........thats a good one ,......i wouldn't have know that only you have said it to me now ,................i am sorry to every one here about this ,.........what i mean is its going on so long ,......with us but i just thought i should let people know what a bully can do to someone when there just minding there business and not bothering anyone ,......oh and i nearly forgot at a time when i was trying to help someone else ,......

Do you have any pictures of an Elvis doll  lol