I love my hausben, we have been together for 8 yrs... I am never satified when we make love. It always hurts i am always crying...I fell bad for him. The only times we had good love is when i was drunk. And now that I quit drinking, there is a problem...I dont know what is wrong with me. sometimes he takes his time and really tries to see what I like, but I am always thinking about something else... I think i could go months with out sex, i dont have a big sex drive and I want to know why... I am only 22 yrs old... Could it be that i am a young mother of 2 kids? what is it I do not know...Need help  (: