What is Wrong with my Friend?

[lilcurious]

Ok, my friend is sexal active and she told me that she was hurting. She said that it was more like a contracting/tickle feeling in her vagina. She also said that the last time her boyfriend and her had sex was just a few days ago and since then she has been having that feeling. Also they haven't been using condoms when they do have sex, because "he doesn't have any at his house" and "they stop before he ejaculates". I told her that was total stupied for her to do and that she still could get pregnate and/or get a STD from the precum. I also told her to go to the docter, but she wouldn't do it because her parents will have to go with her and even though they already know she is having sex she feels that "it would be weird to have my mom sitting there while the docter is asking about my sex life". I don't personly know about having sex, feeling contractions, or with he akwardness with the sex-asking-docter with your arents in the room. To me I think she shouldn't have even started sex because (1) she didn't knew about the precum part and (2) she rather wait it out then go to the docter to see what is actually wrong with her because of the akwardness. Anyway, do you think she has a STD or that she could be pregnate? Or is she just spoked from a new feeling?

[Vance2335]

You are a smart friend and I encourage you to keep on your friend about seeing a Dr. Her parents do not have to be in the room with her when she sees the Dr. She could go to a planned parenthood or a local health department for STD testing.
To be honest I don't know what it could be, others on her might, but again I encourage you to almost force her to see a Dr. At the very least she can get on birth control since they don't use condoms.

[auntiejessi]

She could have something as simple as a yeast infection, and she needs to get checked out.

I appreciate that you are there for your friend, but I would suggest not telling her she was stupid, etc.  She's probably already figured that out.  Maybe you can offer to go with her to the doctor.

Every state has different laws about notifying parents, but if you call your local std clinic or Planned Parenthood, they can tell you the laws in your state.  

If you are in the UK, she can go to any GUM clinic and get tested and they will not tell her parents.

AJ

[lilcurious]

Thanks for your comment, and I knew that if I said that she was stupied that would just be wrong on me. Oh and she did finally go to the doctor and it turned out to be a bladder infection.

[lilcurious]

Thanks for your comment and your help. I tried talking to her about the birthcontrol, but I dunno if she will though.