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1 finger, 2 finger, 3 finger, 4 finger, (whole hand)?
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Janice M Epp, PhD - Female sexual issues, Adolescent sexuality, Male sexual issues
Private Practice
Palo Alto - CA
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1 finger, 2 finger, 3 finger, 4 finger, (whole hand)?
by Becca89, Jul 08, 2008 02:37PM
I am 18 and my bf and i have been dating for 10m and while giving each other oral sex...it is so hard for me to get an orgasim and he found away to make it happen. by starting with one finger, then two, then three, then four and by the time i know it his whole hand is inside. is this safe? i dont wanna tell him to stop bc is feels great! but im worried this may not be the safest! PLEZ HELP!!!!!
Doctor's Answer
by Janice M Epp, PhD, Jul 08, 2008 07:03PM
, Jul 08, 2008 07:03PM
To: aug884004
Hello.
People are generally comfortable with the idea of fingering with more than one finger, but not as many have been exposed to the idea of inserting a whole hand into the vagina, known as “vaginal fisting.”
As you’ve already discovered, it can be EXTREMELY pleasurable. Trust and communication between partners is essential--and tons of lube helps a lot, too. And, of course, there are medical conditions that can complicate various experimental sex practices. Check with your own physician to be sure that you’re not putting yourself at risk.
There ARE a few safety issues to consider because fisting can result in injury or infection if not done properly. First of all, hands should be very clean. It’s also important that your partner’s nails are cut and filed until every finger is as smooth as it could possibly be so you’re not at risk for cuts and abrasions. Latex gloves should also be used in order to reduce friction and protect from bacteria. And, as with any activity, if you experience any painful or unpleasant sensations, be sure to tell your partner to stop. Dr. J
People are generally comfortable with the idea of fingering with more than one finger, but not as many have been exposed to the idea of inserting a whole hand into the vagina, known as “vaginal fisting.”
As you’ve already discovered, it can be EXTREMELY pleasurable. Trust and communication between partners is essential--and tons of lube helps a lot, too. And, of course, there are medical conditions that can complicate various experimental sex practices. Check with your own physician to be sure that you’re not putting yourself at risk.
There ARE a few safety issues to consider because fisting can result in injury or infection if not done properly. First of all, hands should be very clean. It’s also important that your partner’s nails are cut and filed until every finger is as smooth as it could possibly be so you’re not at risk for cuts and abrasions. Latex gloves should also be used in order to reduce friction and protect from bacteria. And, as with any activity, if you experience any painful or unpleasant sensations, be sure to tell your partner to stop. Dr. J
Member Comments (5)
by aug884004, Jul 08, 2008 03:30PM
!!! sounds a little painful??? I would think its probably not the best way since fingernails can have bacteria and he could easily scratch you by accident. plus a guys hand is pretty big, and could cause tears in your vagina and invite bacteria. I'm not an expert, but it doesnt sound like a good idea to me....
by asiababy, Jul 16, 2008 07:20PM
To: figer
hey
by john911, Jul 18, 2008 07:42AM
You probably orgasm because he is hitting your g spot. Let him try two fingers rubbing the top spongy part inside of your vagina. Just a thought. That must make him feel inadequate though. *****. From a male point of view with an above average size penis that would make me feel inadequate not being able to please you.
by Becca89, Jul 18, 2008 08:18AM
To: john
yea i also orgasm when he uses 2! it is just something different we both never tried before. my bf is way above average with his penis size! when we first started datting it took awhile for him to get it in bc he was so HUGE! i never knew a guy could have that big of a penis.
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